My wife has issues, and i don't know what to do?

My wife has been in (as far as she tells me) 2 bad relationships. She has a child with one who adore very much, and he abandoned her. The other was mentally abusive to her and cheated. I've know my wife for 6 years before we married and seen the effects of both. Before we dated she was fine, but no sooner than i moved in she became controlling, stopping me from having company cause it's "her" house, not being able to leave and see friends and severing all contact with my ex's.and other females i know (we left on mutual terms and are still friends nothing else) In the time we've been married she's lied to me about 2 very big things and i forgave her. Her thing now is to badger me with questions about if i someone texts me or if i got any phone calls. She treats me more like her child than her husband. she works anywhere from 8-16 hours a day and takes it out on me. I am a stay at home dad to our daughter. She always gripes about paying for everything but yet neve lets me leave the house to look for work, always insisting i'll get a job if i apply online. I've been doing it over a year now and no job. She wants to know about all the females i talk to and the insecurity is driving me insane. I understand she has problems from the past but she can't blame for them. I don't know what to do. please help, its my first marriage and i don't wanna be a statistic but this is wearing on me emotionally and physically. Thank you for your time.