Are aethiests anti-american?

Not all of our soldiers are dying. My atheist in a foxhole husband has done 2 tours in the Middle East since he joined the Army 5 years ago. I am an atheist too. Do you understand how much we sacrifice when our loved one deploys? Do you understand how much sh*t I deal with on my own, with a smile on my face so I don't upset my husband, who is working hard on keeping his platoon alive? I dare you to call me unpatriotic, kid.